Performance management · People leadership

Performance is a conversation, not a surprise.

People deserve to know what success looks like, where they stand, and what support is available to help them get where they need to be.

Performance management should not begin with discipline. It should begin with context. The numbers tell me where to look; the conversation helps me understand what I am actually seeing.

Diagnose before you decide

The same missed metric can have six different causes.

A knowledge gap, unclear direction, missing resources, burnout, personal circumstances, and inconsistent effort should not receive identical responses.

01

Understand the history

I review previous performance, recent trends, documented conversations, and meaningful changes.

02

Examine the environment

I consider workload, staffing, new processes, system issues, and whether the entire team is shifting.

03

Start with questions

I share what I see and listen before deciding whether the employee needs clarity, practice, support, or accountability.

04

Set the path together

We establish specific expectations, useful support, measurable outcomes, and a realistic timeline.

05

Coach between meetings

Real-time examples make feedback concrete. Formal check-ins document patterns and recognize progress.

06

Follow through

If support, clarity, and time do not produce progress, I move into formal corrective action with no surprises.

Performance management in practice

Coach the person, not just the problem.

Three anonymized examples showing different needs, different approaches, and measurable outcomes.

Case 02 · Adaptive coaching

Fair does not always mean identical.

Conversational coaching felt personal and adversarial to one employee. I stopped coaching in my preferred style and shifted to direct, objective data with written follow-ups outlining the metric, expected action, and evidence of progress.

The employee improved, remained successful, and received feedback in a format they could actually use. My job was not to make their needs make sense to me. My job was to adapt.

“You are not coaching a problem. You are coaching a person.”

Case 03 · Formal accountability

Support the person. Hold the boundary.

A strong customer-facing employee struggled with attendance and averaged roughly 75% schedule adherence. After repeated coaching and resources did not create measurable change, I issued a written warning with explicit expectations, a three-month plan, formal check-ins, and a clear progression path.

I partnered with HR to explore reasonable accommodations and separate what was within the employee’s control from protected circumstances. Her adherence improved to 85–90%, within the acceptable range and approaching the 93% goal.

75%to85–90%schedule adherence

When the system needs coaching

Sometimes the performance problem is operational.

My escalation team absorbed customer frustration across multiple channels every day. They were overwhelmed by being yelled at and by the constant switching cost between calls, emails, chats, and administrative work.

I created a rotating monthly off-phone administrative day, scheduled around our highest-demand weeks. It gave employees focused time to complete important work and showed them I had heard what the job was costing them.

50%Fewer average absences
+2 ptsAverage CSAT
↑Performance consistency

What I believe

Empathy and accountability belong on the same side.

Employees should never be surprised by discipline.Expectations, coaching, support, and documentation should come first.

Before I assume someone does not care, I ask.I need the whole story before drawing conclusions about effort or intent.

A performance plan should be actionable and achievable.Clear enough to follow, fair enough to trust, and measurable enough to evaluate.

I know coaching is working when I am needed less.Independence creates room for the team and its leader to work on bigger things.

Not every role is right for every person. Every person still deserves honesty, dignity, and fairness throughout the process.